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If I give you tips for listening more effectively and you rush

off to practice the tips you may not get very far no matter how

hard you try. Why? Because you are likely to be self conscious

when you need to be other conscious. Standing in front of the new

people you want to meet you freeze and you feel so unsure of

yourself that you cannot remember even one of the listening tips.

You need the ability to switch off self consciousness whenever

you choose to do so. Sounds obvious only how can you do this?

By switching your attention off of yourself and Golf - The Unseen Secret Power Of The Swing Radius (http://damirhicfeu.blog.com/2016/02/19/golf-the-unseen-secret-power-of-the-swing-radius/) onto the other

person.

When you are feeling self conscious you will tend to pay too

much attention to the thoughts inside your head, how you are

feeling and how you look.

Ironically, to develop great rapport you need to pay close

attention to the other person. How is she feeling? How does she

look today? Is she relaxed or tense?

The Three Elements To Ridding Yourself Of Self Consciousness

1 Turn off the inner dialogue that makes you feel self conscious

One way to do this is to touch the roof of your mouth with your

tongue when you are not talking. We tend to move our tongues when

we engage in inner talk even if only very slightly. When you put

the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth you interrupt

the negative inner talk pattern.

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you still have plenty of idle brain power that will drift back to

make your self consciousness grow.

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Become fascinated by how she expresses herself and not just

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The more you pay attention to the other person the less self

conscious you will be because you will have become other

conscious. Which is in fact the hallmark of people who make

friends easily. Your clear interest in the other person will

shine through.

3 Patient Persistence

The final point to remember is that patience and persistence

wins the day. Play with these strategies a little each day and

you will start to exhibit the traits of people who are supposedly

gifted with people skills.

People skills are a matter of strategy. Learn the strategy,

practice it and you too will enjoy the benefits that come to

those who get along well with whoever they meet.

At the same time you need to earn the riches that await you.

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